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Οι cat ladies δεν είναι 60άρες γεροντοκόρες. Είναι απλά τόσο cool όσο σου δείχνουν αυτές οι φωτογραφίες

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Μην περιμένεις καμία μα καμία αντικειμενικότητα στο συγκεκριμένο άρθρο. Η αρθρογράφος του έχει μία γάτα μέσα στο σπίτι, δύο μόνιμους θαμώνες στην αυλή, μία γάτα στο πατρικό της και άπειρες γάτες που ερωτεύεται σε κάθε γωνιά της Ελλάδας. Όπως καταλαβαίνεις αυτός ο μύθος της γεροντοκόρης με τις γάτες, είναι κάτι το οποίο με στοιχειώνει προσωπικά. Η crazy cat lady, κατά τους φίλους μας τους Αμερικάνους είναι παντού γύρω μας στην pop κουλτούρα. Από τους Simpsons και την Eleanor Abernathy μέχρι την Miss Caroline Percehouse και την Mrs Hemmings στα έργα της Agatha Cristie αλλά και την κλασική σύνδεση των γατών και των μαγισσών, οι γυναίκες που λατρεύουν τις γάτες είναι απλά τρελές. Μόνο που δεν είναι.

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Ένας λογαριασμός στο Instagram με το όνομα Girls and Their Cats προσπαθεί να μας το αποδείξει. Πρόσφατα η συλλογή φωτογραφιών του από απείρως cool κυρίες με τις γάτες τους έγινε και βιβλίο και νομίζω ότι αν είσαι σαν εμένα, ή από την άλλη δεν είσαι καθόλου σαν εμένα και εξακολουθείς να πιστεύεις ότι οι cat ladies είναι τρελές, πρέπει να το πάρεις. Το βιβλίο και τον λογαριασμό δημιούργησε η φωτογράφος BriAnne Willis.

Η BriAnne και ο Tuck.

«Δεν καταλάβαινα τον τρόπο που απεικονίζονται αυτές οι γυναίκες στην κουλτούρα μας καταρχάς επειδή είχα μεγαλώσει σε ένα σπίτι που πάντα αγαπούσαμε τις γάτες. Αλλά κατάλαβα τελικά ότι αυτός είναι ο τρόπος που πολλοί άνθρωποι αντιμετωπίζουν τις γυναίκες που έχουν γάτες για κατοικίδιο», είπε η BriAnne Willis στο Refinery29 όπου παρουσίασε τη δουλειά της. Στο βιβλίο της περιλαμβάνονται πορτρέτα 50 γυναικών – καλλιτεχνών, επιχειρηματιών, συγγραφέων και ακτιβιστών- και των γατών τους, με σκοπό να σπάσει το στερεότυπο που δένει τις γυναίκες με γάτες με την τρέλα και τις ιδιοτροπίες.

«Η σχέση μας με τις γάτες είναι συμβιωτικές. Εκείνες μας δίνουν αυτό που χρειαζόμαστε κι εμείς το ίδιο και δεν παίρνουμε η μία από την άλλη τίποτα παραπάνω. Και αρκετές φορές μαθαίνουμε η μία από την άλλη» σημειώνει η BriAnne που έχει δύο γάτες τον Tuck και τη Liza κι εγώ, ως ιδιοκτήτρια της Μάγιας θα συμφωνήσω. Και θα σε αφήσω να δεις τι εννοεί η BriAnne για την σχέση cool γυναικών με τις γάτες τους με μερικές ενδεικτικές φωτογραφίες από το Instagram του Girls and Their Cats. Αν δεν έχεις ακούσει το γουργουρητό της αγάπης μιας γάτας, αν δεν σε έχει ζεστάνει με τη γούνα της τον χειμώνα και αν δε σε έχει κάνει να σκάσεις με τον ακριβώς ίδιο τρόπο το καλοκαίρι ίσως να μην καταλάβεις, τίποτα από όλα όσα όσα φαίνονται στις παρακάτω φωτογραφίες. Αλλά τουλάχιστον, ίσως μπεις στον κόπο να καταλάβεις ότι κι αυτό, όπως και κάθε άλλο, είναι ένα ακόμα στερεότυπο που πρέπει να σπάσει.

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"We also had no idea what an incredible foster cat dad Meatball would turn out to be. We’ve fostered four litters since we adopted him and he becomes a surrogate parent to all of them. The kittens make a beeline for him every time we let them out of the bedroom (we only allow supervised visits with the grown cats) and he'll groom, snuggle and play with them all day. We’ve nicknamed him Mama Meatball because he provides so much love and comfort to these orphaned babies in ways that we humans can’t.⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Fostering has been one of the most rewarding and meaningful experiences of my life. Not only does it allow me to snuggle kittens all day long but I also get to see our fosters blossom from being fearful and under-socialized to trusting and affectionate. It’s also given us Kit and Meatball, who have brought out the best in each other, even if they forget it sometimes. It’s not always easy. As my husband likes to say, fostering is 70% sunshine and roses, 20% emotional labor and 10% poop (probably more poop, actually). But it’s one of the best ways to help animals, who might not otherwise have a chance, find loving homes and it helps our hardworking shelters out. I did some math and if just 5% of US households fostered one animal once per year, we could clear the shelters. And who knows, you might also meet the cats of your dreams." @gabioc⁠⠀⠀ Gabi O’Connor is a software engineer at Etsy and foster kitten mom with @bfas_ny. Aside from cats, her interests include horror movies, surreal comedy and celebrity gossip. She lives in Brooklyn with her writer husband and two cats. You can follow Mama Meatball and his kittens at @mama.meatball.the.cat⁠⠀

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Η Gaby O Conor, software engineer στο Etsy και ανάδοχος μαμά για γάτες.

 

Η ακτιβίστρια Hannah και οι εκπαιδευμένες να κάνουν high five γάτες της.

 

Η Devin Caskie, ανάδοχη μαμά για γάτες και Senior Product Designer στο CNN.

 

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"I have absolutely adored cats for as long as I can remember. I’m not sure where the infatuation started, but I definitely had an imaginary band when I was a kid called “The Egyptian Kitty Cat Sundaes.” My dream was to become a famous rock star and build a mansion filled with homeless cats. I’d welcome all my friends whose family wouldn’t allow cats to visit and pet them. This is still the dream though, but perhaps I missed the boat on becoming a famous rock star…⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Years ago, I was battling terrible depression. PTSD from past trauma was taking a toll on me to a point where I lost all desire to live. In an effort to take back control of my life, I started fostering as therapy. I knew that when I was depressed, my cat Princess was the reason for living. She loved me and needed me. Fostering gave me a purpose I desperately needed, helping animals and my community. I knew that if I wasn’t there for them then no one would be there to feed them, give them their medicine, or take care of them, and I could never abandon a cat in need. After seeing how much rescuing animals helped me, I figured that for every cat I saved, another sad little girl like me would adopt one of my former fosters, who would give her a reason to live too. It sounds cheesy but I love the slogan “Who rescued who?” because I don’t believe I’ve rescued a single cat, they have all rescued me.⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ My absolute favorite part of fostering is getting to meet such a variety of personalities and watching the progress they make. I worked with a lot of young neonatal kittens that needed round-the-clock care, and feral kittens that required a lot of special one-on-one socializing. It’s incredibly exhausting work, repeatedly putting yourself out there to a scared cat who probably thinks you're trying to kill and eat them lashing back with a fury of howls and scratches. It takes a lot of persistence to keep working with them until they understand you're there to love and help them. I cannot think of a single thing more rewarding than cuddling with a happy, healthy cat who six weeks ago was on their death bed or in constant fear for their life." @babysarahrulz @catcafebk⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ #fosteringsaveslives #kittens

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Η Sarah Joy Hood, Senior Product Designer στην Condenast που ξεπέρασε το Μετατραυματικό στρες χάρη στις γάτες της.

 

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"All my life I have been a huge animal lover. I grew up riding horses, having bunnies hop around my bedroom, parakeets singing in my living room, and dogs running around in my backyard. However, the one thing my family never had was a cat since my brother was highly allergic. I was always really bummed that we couldn’t adopt one because I was super intrigued with pictures of artists with their cats like Georgia O’Keefe, Frida Khalo, and Patti Smith. Their cats seemed to be their muse, inspiration, and best friend, and I so badly wanted one as my own. When I moved out to NYC for college and to pursue my artistic endeavors, I met my boyfriend who is also a huge animal lover. However, he grew up with only cats, so he really pushed me to adopt one and helped me find Buster.⁣⠀ ⁣⠀ Buster was an abused street cat that was picked up by someone and taken to the ACC and it was thought he wouldn’t be adopted because he was “too shy and scared.” Anjellicle Cats organization rescued him from the ACC and that is where I was first introduced to Buster. When I went to the shelter to meet him, it really felt like everything was so meant to be. When we were petting him, he wouldn’t stop purring and rubbing his head on us. The minute I took my hand away, he actually reached his paw out and placed it on my arm. I always heard that cats chose their owners, but I didn’t believe it till I saw it. I knew that we were meant to be no matter what. When Buster got to my house, he was very nervous and extremely scared, and immediately ran under the bed. I knew that it was going to take a lot of patience and time for him to feel safe and to come out of his shell." @claudiadockery⁣⠀ ⁣

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Η μουσικός και εικαστικός Claudia Dockery και ο Buster.

 

Η μουσικός, ακτιβίστρια για τα δικαιώματα των γυναικών και το κίνημα του Body Positivity  και συγγραφέας April Kae και η Lumpy.

 

Η ιδιοκτήτρια του design studio AELFI και η υπέροχη The Shah.

 

Κεντρική φωτογραφία: Instagram/girlsandtheircats